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If you experience stage fright during speaking or presentation assignments then take
heart because you are not alone. Actors, singer, musicians, dancers, and athletes are
frequently afflicted with the same syndrome. Biographies of well known celebrities
often reveal continuing and acute stage fright even after decades of recognition and
success.
You should also recognize that there are varying degrees of stage fright. At one end,
there is simple excitement with adrenaline preparing the performer to excel. At the
other, there is a near death experience. Somewhere in the middle is a cross over point
at which your performance becomes impaired by the state of your nerves. If you are
reading this article then chances are that you have crossed that point on more than
one occasion. Read on!
In order to begin conquering your stage fright, you first need to recognize when you
are approaching your crossover point. This will differ from individual to individual
and may also be affected by the type of performance event. For example, some people
find that facing an audience of thousands is nothing, but performing before a small
group turns them into jelly. Others find an audience of friends more intimidating
than strangers. Secondly, you must know how to take immediate remedial action.
Almost everyone experiences stage fright at some time. The polished speakers you see
have learned to take control of the stage fright experience through a mixture of
preparation, physical skills and positive attitude. Master these and you will be able to
conquer your fear.
Preparation
Preparation is absolutely vital. This includes your material, audience/event analysis
and the physical setting. You may know the subject, but do you know the audience and the
significance of this occasion? Not knowing can be a significant cause of anxiety.
Practice by video or audio recording yourself which helps to visualize performance and
to develop muscle memory. Researchers have confirmed that use of video tape in
preparation for public speaking or singing reduces anxiety and improves performance.
Develop an inconspicuous personal relaxation ritual. Singers, musicians and dancers can
often do this behind the scenes but presenters are usually on the stage before their
performance and would look a bit odd doing tai chi, yoga or standing on their head.
Improvise a prompt so that you are not anxious about forgetting the sequence of your
material. You can use prepared flip charts, pictures on the wall, slides or presentation
software.
Physical skills
Public speaking is a physical activity. Stage fright is an emotional reaction which
restricts physical abilities. To unlearn the unwanted physical reactions associated with
stage fright, you must practice performance before an audience. Once is not enough.
Mastery requires distributed and incremental learning. One possibility to obtain regular
speaking experience in a less threatening envivronment is to engage a professional coach
or enroll in a class or seminar. You could also consider joining a local Toastmasters
club. With practice you can access other kinds of intelligence and appear physically
relaxed, enthusiastic and confident even though you are not.
Positive attitude
Mold your attitude around all your successes. Remember what success feels like, what it
looks like. Even when you perform in a less than stellar fashion, remember the parts you
did that were outstanding. People overwhelmed with stage fright have negative attitudes.
They imagine everything that could go wrong or develop a litany of other negatives.
Replace negative attitudes with positive ones. A positive attitude will lead you to
seek any help you may need to improve. A negative attitude shackles your personal and
professional life.
Think about all the things you have to share with this audience and how it will benefit
them. Decide beforehand that it will be a fun experience. Performance is an act of
faith. You have to believe your body will perform what it has practiced whether it is a
speech, a song, a dance or an athletic competition.
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